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James is a 27 year old man when he gets a message from a girl the first guest is what does she do and when he clicks her profile she will be similar to him, the point being you attract similar types of people to yourself by how you setup your online profile. You cannot change your age or looks or job but there are some ways to present yourself better.
1. Do not be modest If a girl says “I'm average looking", blah blah, then men will think “she must be really ugly" even though they do not think that way they will still think oh she is not a confident woman or not very attractive so the key is to emphasize your good qualities like if you are little bit chubby then you can say I have got a curvy shaped body then you will get many more messages. If you are skinny you say I have got a very lean body either my friends always envy me for being slim.
2. When you start have a conversation Do not mention about anything you are stressed about or either if you are having a hard time. Not many people looking for a soul mate through online dating sites they would rather meet someone who has got a positive mind and fun to be with instead of someone who is not happy about their life, almost of us we have too much on our plate already. Why would attractive people want to meet and know about other people's problems, NO ONE would at first.
3. Do not overwrite about yourself This is a very important key because if you talk about yourself a lot you look less attractive for your profile, (50 to 100 words) will be appropriate. This will also make other people curious about you and want to know you more. And also giving too much information could also be very dangerous especially in online dating you would not know what kind of people are reading your profile.
4. Do not put weird pictures Men likes hot girls, it doesn't mean they only care about looks but they care at first. So do not put the pictures which men cannot see your face or only some body part if someone interested in that type of picture he is more likely only wanting sex (if you want to then that wouldn't be a problem) but if you want to meet decent people and want to have a serous relationship put up pictures with a great smile, confidence, and dressed nicely.
5. Be careful with these type of guys When you get messages from new people but you will be very exited but do not forget there are some dangers too. Some guys try to send their message to many girls at the same time so when you get a message you must read it carefully and check if he mentions your name and your interests.
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